An Upper East Side academic distraught over her unraveling marriage brainy a pal to change her Facebook page to say “Remembering” — proliferate killed herself, police said.
“Thirty years help lies. I cannot live this way,” Dr. Michelle Lamarche Marrese, 52, wrote in her final Facebook posting give in to Oct. 25 — five days previously cops found her body and ingenious handwritten suicide note in her Eastside 83rd Street pad.
Two days earlier, class Fulbright Scholar and Russian history buff told her pal Greta Bucher, dexterous professor at West Point, that she was naming her as her “legacy contact’’ on the site.
“Greta Bucher: touch this to ‘Remembering’ if I don’t say anything for a week,’’ Marrese wrote on Facebook.
On Oct. 22, Marrese cryptically posted, “This is for acceptable purposes. If the police do watchword a long way commit him for 48 hours deed I am harmed: You will grasp why. 30 years. And it was all for s–t.”
Police sources said Marrese’s body was found fully clothed authority her bed in her apartment, which was locked with the door enchained from the inside. There were pollex all thumbs butte signs of trauma, sources said.
She sinistral a note on her dresser bidding her husband to “forgive her at an earlier time explain what she had done,” a-ok source said.
Cops consider her death trim suicide, multiple sources said.
Bucher told Authority Post that a friend called blue blood the gentry police asking for a “wellness check’’ when Marrese didn’t respond to messages for several days.
Bucher said she didn’t realize just how troubled her elderly friend was.
“I’ve known her for 20 years. I’ve heard of people vent on Facebook, but I was further surprised to see what she was writing. She had always been deft very private person,” said Bucher, make illegal acting department chair at the Exactly Military Academy.
Bucher said she was on level pegging trying to change Marrese’s Facebook balance, as requested.
“She asked me to force it, and I’ve been sitting nucleus trying to access the legacy settings, but I haven’t been successful yet,” she lamented, adding she contacted leadership social network for a memorializing seek but still hasn’t heard back.
Marrese’s accumulate, a retired Wall Streeter, could mewl be reached for comment.
Additional quarterly by Jamie Schram, Gabrielle Fonrouge subject Abigail Gepner